Each of us in our relations with others, including our spouse and family, from time to time collect thoughts and feelings which for various reasons we fail to express or act upon at the time. In order for our relationship to be "up to date", it is helpful from time to time to review these times and in a sense "keep current."

During the next hour or so of free time or sometime during the evening, we would invite you and your spouse to spend some time listening to one another as you discuss the following statements:

1. In our relationship over the years, I regret that . . .

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. In our relationship over the years, I am happy that . . .